A Life Different Than His Own

Balan was only around 7 years old but already thinking about suicide. He spent his days sitting alone in a corner of his parents’ home, a shawl wrapped around him to cover his body. After being diagnosed with leprosy, his mother, father, siblings and the rest of his community excommunicated him.

“I was all alone,” Balan says. “I was not allowed to take a bath in a common water pond. I was not allowed to attend any festivals or any event or any celebration, so life was all lonely. I was very sad, and I used to feel rejected.”

He’d entertain thoughts of standing in front of an oncoming train to end his life. The pain of rejection and the loneliness was too much for the young boy to handle on his own . . . until his brother-in-law heard about Balan’s situation.

“You don’t have to think like that,” he consoled. “You will be alright. … You will see the world once again.”

Those words gave Balan hope. Eventually, Balan’s brother-in-law took him to a mission hospital that specialized in leprosy. He spent six years there being treated; then he made his home in a village with other leprosy patients. Balan grew up, married, had children and enjoyed life—as much as was possible—with others who had experienced the same rejection and loneliness he had when he was a young boy.

Then, when one of Balan’s children contracted leprosy, he was there for them. He didn’t reject or excommunicate them; instead, he loved them and watched them grow older, marry and have children of their own. Thoughts of suicide no longer clouded Balan’s mind.

A Center Free from Stigma

Balan’s granddaughter Nalika has lived a very different childhood than the one he experienced. Instead of being shut away and rejected by society because of her family, Nalika experienced a loving environment among other children from similar circumstances.

A GFA-supported Bridge of Hope center opened near Nalika’s village with the explicit purpose of protecting children from facing the same future their family members who suffered from leprosy faced. Out of the 125 students enrolled, Nalika was one of 33 children who came from a family affected by leprosy.

The staff at the center loved and encouraged each child equally, never pointing out the differences in family backgrounds. They made sure the children mingled with one another and learned to care for each other.

Vivash, the current project coordinator at the Bridge of Hope center, served as one of its social workers when the center opened in 2008.

“[Our leaders] thought to establish this project center so we can serve this kind of underprivileged children, so their lives will be better, and through them, their parents also will be developed,” Vivash says.

As a social worker, he’d visit the students’ homes, talk with parents and provide godly counsel. These visits became a source of joy for the families, especially for those who never before received visits because of their disease. It was a time to foster relationships and let them know that—no matter what they suffered from—Bridge of Hope was there for their children and for them.

When a child at the center seemed to have signs of leprosy, Vivash would inform the parents and encourage them to get their child treated at a nearby leprosy mission hospital. The child was never shut away or rejected at the center but was taken care of and watched over.

“We don’t want to make a partition among them,” Vivash says, “because if we [do that], they will feel very lonely … We don’t want them to feel like that, so that is the reason we don’t want to make them separate. We teach them together; we give them food together; we do programs together.”

New World Through Bridge of Hope

More than 10 years have passed since Nalika started at the Bridge of Hope center. Having grown up with a parent and grandparents afflicted with leprosy, she was very familiar with the effects and stigma of the disease. When she was at the Bridge of Hope center, though, a new world opened up to her.

She learned how to sing, dance and draw. Her teachers taught her the importance of cleanliness and hygiene. They invested in her education and personal development and taught her how to excel. She also discovered an ambition to become a teacher.

“Having been going to Bridge of Hope for quite some time,” Nalika says, “I have learned so many good things that have impacted my life. It has helped me in my character.”

Throughout Nalika’s time with Bridge of Hope, she and her family have experienced a new life. She doesn’t live with the stigma of leprosy; suicide has never entered her mind; and Balan can rejoice knowing his future generations will live well and free of the stigma that dominated his.

This is Balan and his granddaughter, Nalika. He contracted leprosy when he was just around 7 years old and was excommunicated from his home village. He battled suicidal thoughts because of his loneliness, but today, he gets to watch his children and grandchildren live a much more joyful life than his own.

Balan, Nalika and their family live in a village that many patients with leprosy call home. Many of these men and women were excommunicated from their home villages, like Balan was, after they contracted this bacterial infection. The stigma attached to leprosy is wounding in itself as many experience loneliness and rejection from the people they love.

After seeing the situation of the children living in this village, GFA-supported workers established a Bridge of Hope center that would free these precious children from the stigma their parents and grandparents grew up with.

Vivash (center in red shirt), the project coordinator, and the other Bridge of Hope staff care for each child in this center, despite their family backgrounds. They pray for each one and their needs and minister God’s love in practical ways, such as helping them excel in their studies, providing food and medical checkups, and counseling their families.

At the center, children are given the tools they need to excel as teachers and staff invest in their education and ultimately, their futures. Even though some of these children at the center have family members living with leprosy, they are shown the same love and respect as other children.

Just like in every Bridge of Hope center across Asia, Nalika and the other students are provided with a hot, nutritious meal to fill their bellies.

Here, a student works on a coloring project to either send to her supporter or enter in a contest called Colors of Hope. Students enrolled in Bridge of Hope take part in regular activities to sharpen their gifts and talents.

Putting on programs is a regular part of Bridge of Hope activities. Vivash and the Bridge of Hope staff make sure each child participates and feels equipped and special.

The students at this Bridge of Hope center enjoy spending time with each other without worrying about facing rejection because of their family circumstances. Vivash and the staff make it a point to teach them how to love and embrace each other as brothers and sisters.

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